September 2012
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Anonymous asked: Please take down this hateful blog. Why not make it about homophobia/heterosexism, misogyny and slut shamers rather than acting like asexuality is somehow related to these things? Certainly, people who happen to be asexual are capable of saying things related to this, just like any other person. But you're only spreading hate to an already hated group by calling your blog "homophobic...
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July 2012
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green-evening:
appropriative straight asexuals/demisexuals/whatever are just the most recent iteration in a long line of appropriative straight people
just like straight poly people, straight swingers, straight crossdressers, straight trans chasers, straight kinky people, etc.
all of the above groups have at one time or another claimed to be queer, or “the new gays,” or even more oppressed...
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stunglikehell:
“Queer is defined by the dictionary as - ”
woah hold up dude
i need to sit down for the knowledge you’re about to lay on me
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mentemmortaliatangunt:
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Anonymous asked: sexuality does not define intelligence, thank you very much.
Let’s say two people get on the internet.
One goes to a website and spends their time drooling over celebrities..
One isn’t interested in that kind of bullshit, so they go to a website and… read an article on global warming.
If this scenario occurs enough times, how...
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June 2012
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palilicium:
I just don’t understand the whole emphasis by sexuals on the sexual part of their relationship. I’m sure sex with a partner is good and physical need and desire is brilliant, but can a relationship survive on that? I personally think they’re missing out on the little awesome things of their partner and miss out, too, on the pure enjoyment of cuddling with their partner. Or just...
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Founder of AVEN
palilicium:
Jay finds some of the changes he has observed in U.S. universities in recent years encouraging, however. As more asexual people take ownership of the queer identity, they also have become more prominent within queer organizations. “One of the cool things that’s happening on college campuses around the country is that, as asexual people are getting involved on campus LBGT groups,...
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Anonymous asked: Do you know if there's been any studies about the intersection of misogyny and slut-shaming with asexuality?
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The are no Oppression Olympics, just the...
morningchorus:
It occurs to me why asexuals on tumblr annoy the fuck out of me. It’s because they remind me so much of the atheist community I used to be involved in. It was mostly middle class white guys and I was convinced atheism was the worst oppression to face, but then reality smacked me in the face, well mostly their own misogyny towards me and other women.
I know the atheist arguments...
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The thing about saying "An [x] couple had their...
missvoltairine:
is that it only counts as indicative of marginalization if it’s systemic
How many people from [x] group are denied the right to be considered fit adoptive parents, per year? How does that break down by region? What is the reasoning given by adoption agencies and services? If there isn’t a lot of data on [x] group accessing adoption services, then how does the existing data stack...
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saschaeatsteeth:
you can’t “reclaim” what was never yours you can, however, just claim it that is called “appropriation” now go away and leave me alone sorry I’m not sorry for ~alienating you~
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raumlet:
Sometimes I sit back and think about the fact that those straight cis aces that these people are so angry about, the ones who want to be in queer spaces and use the word queer? Those aces are only 13% of the 22% of straight cis aces, out of a community made up of about 1% of the entire population of the world.
13% of 22% of...
May 2012
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guys, here is why people keep saying that...
missvoltairine:
It’s not because anyone gives a shit about how you, personally, only want to have sex after forming an “emotional attachment” or w/e. In fact, it is precisely because no one cares about how you, personally, only want to have sex after forming an “emotional attachment” or w/e.
It’s not because anyone is trying to ~police~ your identity. It’s because “demisexuality”, the term, the...
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April 2012
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Anonymous asked: I don't understand why you're making a meme about Unionjackal, who is a) not being homophobic at all in any definition and b) simply stating facts, rather than running around covered in bees and occasionally making posts which are just bees miraculously forming sentences that sadly make no sense unless you're a bee.
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Anonymous asked: fyi, they have a new "safe" tag: actuallyasexual
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Anonymous asked: Are you chicken?
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Anonymous asked: You're partysoft, aren't you?
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PSA: I AM THE B IN LGBT
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tw suicide
http://fyignorantlgbtiguana.tumblr.com/post/21432471568/tw-suicide
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